I DON'T WANT ANY COMMENTS OR TELLING ME ITS WRONG. I KNOW. JUST PLEASE READ AND ANSWER THE QUESTION TRUTHFULLY Lets say you were a married man. You were in your 30's, a cop, and had a young son. You are unhappy. You decide to stray with your 17 year old neighbor. No sex. Tell her you love her, like, "i love you", and say you are saving money up for her, you, and your son. for 7 months. You decide to get a divorce. But then your best friend rats you out to your wife. You cant leave now. Because of the illegal age thing, losing your child, The whole money thing on a bad divorce. You are no longer allowed to have any communication with the 17 year old. And you are not in love with your wife. She makes you change your cell phone number, delete all email accounts and anything else on the internet. She watches you like a hawk. You tell the 17 year old to look forward to the future, be patient, and that nothing will happen anytime soon (7 months ago). The 17 year old was so hurt she did things to affect you from trying to make peace with ur wife so she can let it go faster. That makes you mad. But you still forgive the 17 year old. The 17 year old, 5 months after the fact, finds ur new number. Decides to text you. You dont answer her texts. She writes mean texts to you because she is sad and that "she thought you were friends no matter what" blah blah blah. You then call her the next day to leave a voicemail saying. "im sorry for what i had to do, but i cant be getting texts on that phone because everythings accounted for and....idk......but, you still are my best friend and i always want you to be. Thats why i try to wave at you and be nice to you. But with that phone, im sorry, i cant do it......i hope we are still friends. ill talk to you later. bye".......From then on. Sometimes you wave at each other (barely) but nothing special. This girl is now 18. Its been 8 months since your wife found out. This girl is very pretty with a great body. To tell you the truth, you probably wont get anyone better. Not gonna lie. Your in your late 30's and she is 18 and beautiful. Would you ever go back to her?? When would you get back in contact with her???