Voicemail

I used to love this guy off the internet that i had been talking to on the computer and the phone for over 6?

-months. I seriously fell in love and he fell i love with me. He was planning on coming to see me, but we got in a huge fight cuz he was always lieing. So one day i pertended to be someone else and asked for his number to have phone sex and said i was a tall skinny blonde haired blue eyed hot chick from florida and made up a bunch of other details. ( b/c i know how much he loves the blondes ) It turns out he never found out it was me and i accused him of it and he was so stupid he didnt even realize it. We havnt talked in a while and then today out of the blue he leaves me a nice voicemail with his new cell phone number that way if i ever wanted to call and talk. When last month he had his friend call me and leave me a message on my voicemail saying he had a gf and to leave him alone. Whats up with that? Does he still like me or what? My friend ( thats a guy ) that i've known for a while said that this guy i loved prolly still cares for me and just does wana admit it.

Public Comments

1. Honey, let him go. I'm sure that he DOES still have some sort of feelings for you, but you said yourself that his lying is a problem. As I'm sure you know, you can't force a person to change. The best thing would to be move on. There's more guys out there, and I'm sure the right-and honest-one will come along when you least expect it. Good luck!
2. it is obvious that yr guy is a jerk. u deserved to have the best man in the world. dont waste yr time anymore for him. Go out and get guy for u but if u prefer internet, go on . but make sure u get them tell the truth (whis is very difficult in the internet). dont trust 100% until u meet him. remember u have the right to give the best for yourself.
3. your relationship with him is over take care of yourself always
4. If he was always lying to you throughout the period of time you were getting to know one another, how can you even be sure of who he is? YOu need a man you can trust. Its time to move on.
5. HELLOOO!!!!...knock, knock?...anybody in there?...jeesh...most of these guys who chat on line are not interested in real relationships..it's about the cyber or phone sex...which usually means they can't get a real date so they create a persona online, to live out a fantasy...honey, get off the net and go out somewhere & meet REAL people!
6. It sounds to me like he was messing around with your head, honey. Unfortunately there are men like that on the internet and they are complete @$$holes. There are good ones, too, though, so don't let this discourage you from continuing your search where you left off. My own personal motto is "Do follow your heart, _but_ make damn sure your brain is along for the ride." I'm not at all saying that you did anything wrong -- sometimes it can be very hard to tell indeed. It's just that I had to learn a few hard lessons myself and so now I don't give my heart away until I've done the best job possible of making sure I don't pick up on any contradictions, evasion of questions (particularly about family or the person's past), facts/descriptions/histories that don't add up or anything else that my instincts might warn me about. Good luck to ya!